Emotion is state of mind where a particular kind of feeling dominates others. But if I talk about emotion in these terms, I don't think I would do good. Lets see the other, rather I should say, the normal form of Emotion. Slow..... Slow down the pace of reading. Take a calm breath and then proceed.
When you become emotional, you sometime cry, sometime be happy, sometime be restless to meet or talk to someone. Sometimes you become angry, sometime you become a loving and caring person. Sometimes you feel alone with others, sometimes you feel like being with your dear ones. Sometime you feel like writing the diary, isn't it?
Go slow. Be more with yourself and less with words you are reading. Have you felt any of these or most of these or all of these??
Recall the one which you have clearly in you memory. Was that not strong enough to make you forget whatever was happening around you? Were not you living only in cause of the emotion? This is what emotion does. It will isolate you for sometime from the world. This is the beauty of emotion.
Emotions play a vital role in life. It comes in different relations in different way. I have not played a lot of roles till the time when I am writing this. You might have more than mine.
Emotion makes you do few thing what you don't do in general case. Few examples -
- You (male) don't go to any unknown gal and talk to her but you did- Crush.
- You (female) don't say sorry to guys, if its not your mistake but you did- friendship.
- You don't make calls at night 2'o clock but you did- Missing someone.
- You don't spend Rs 5000 in treating your friends but you did- Happiness.
- People has never seen you crying, but this time they saw- Something pierced you.
People say that human should be able to control his different kind of emotions. Do you agree with that? If YES, then you are right and if your answer is NO, you are correct. Now you might be thinking How come you can be correct in both ways. Its possible but that's not the topic of discussion here. If you wanna know how read here.
Emotions contribute a lot in building your character and personality. The way you handle any emotion, defines your character. So next time when you are under a emotional trauma, just check the way you are handling it. Find out if hat is your character.
So when it comes to handling the emotions, its actually handling yourself. Consider this case.
You don't like to be alone so you define yourself as a person to live with others or a social person or anything like this. This becomes your character in long run. Now one fine day you are alone and no one is there to listen or talk to you. You will obviously feel bad and would like to talk to your near and dear once. Hold yourself there for some moment. If you do so, i.e. find a company, you are doing the same old thing according to your character. Just to give a try, don't do this. Handle it in a different way this time. Talk to yourself, analyze what you have done in last days, start reading something interesting, cook something good or new, clean your room, look your school time album. Just do anything where you need not wait for others.
Just see are you able to do this. Just do it whenever you get chance, for three time at max and if after that you find you are doing good, you will start saying that I sometimes like to be alone or something like this.
So the moral of the story is - "You can define or re-define yourself whenever you want." Means - if you have the guts to face your emotions, you can face yourself and you can make yourself as you want.
So next time you face your emotion, face it strong. Make yourself as good and as strong as possible. Forgive me if you didn't like what you read just now because I am not expert, I am learning.
